Comments for The Heart Aches

Comment on Dating……………..? by ♥Beliebing Brianna♥

♥Beliebing Brianna♥ — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 00:52:48 +0000

Ask the guy out, and people who are ‘followers’ will follow what you’re doing & it’s continue from there.

Comment on Dating……………..? by Jess

Jess — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 00:52:48 +0000

you can, you know… ask the guy out.

Comment on How does the process of falling in love begin and continue to grow? by Deb

Deb — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 08:10:11 +0000

It begins from just being together. Nights on the phone for hours talking about anything and everything, Going out and not being able to leave that person so easily. Lust that turns into love. For me it was knowing that besides my family, there is one man in the universe that loves me as I am, fat or skinny, poor or rich. That I can be myself and he doesn’t try to force me to change to what he wants me to be. Being able to love somebody more than life itself still blows my mind and I am grateful to God daily for bringing him to me.

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by Kent

Kent — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

Relationships are like a baseball field, you need to map out a game plan that both satisfies you and your girl. For my relationship that I had that lasted for about 3 years (School kept me from meeting her, broke up, Best 3 years of my life) I can tell you what I have done, I will also incorporate my older friend’s relationship into this map. But I agree with your response, its al gonna be determine by you because you are the matchmaker that can create a situation.

I started my relationship as slow and work my way up the bases. I started with dating and going out somewhere like dinner somewhere casual and while at dinner, ask questions! This is important sometimes because you need to take time understanding her and see what personality is she and answer the question "Is she fit for me?".

With dinner when you gather intelligence, its time to take those and make it happen, lets say made she likes hiking or like long walks, implement them and maybe take it up a notch and try having causal and humorous talks, joke around make her laugh. Entertain yourself and her with your presence. Maybe introduce yourself about your hobbies towards her and she might get interested to join you as well. Compliment her, give her some attention along the way so she will know that you are interested in her. Earn her trust and she will earns yours.

Maybe after a few years OR if you see signs of intimacy begin sensual talks or hangouts with more trust and compassion. Try flirting, giving hugs and kisses. Affection will probably give you more of a trust factor so that it solidifies your relationship towards a longterm. Until then, if she is ready and if you are ready. You can have an intimate relationship like sex or having kids or whatever. THIS IS ONLY IF YOU AND YOUR PARTNER IS READY TO FUFILL A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP THAT INVOLVES MARRIAGE!

Sorry about the long response but also I haven’t included dates, this is because like I said its up to the man (you) to determine what its necessary. Its like a game of word puzzles, you have to determine what course of action you can take. Its going to be hard, but sooner or later its going to pay off in the end. I wish you good luck and good hunting! You are going to do great!

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by Ok...

Ok... — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

Kissing is somethng that shd happen in the moment naturally, spontaneously.

Sex should be put off for as LONG AS POSSIBLE. 2-3 months if you can. Otherwise doing the "deed" changes things, and you can’t change them back. Plus, once we girls do the deed, we are HARD WIRED for ATTACHMENT. And if you aren’t sure you want a girl to get attached quickly, I would avoid the S-E-X… Good luck.

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by Lil Bit O' Honey

Lil Bit O' Honey — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

Actually, it will depend on the girl. I personally won’t kiss on the first date and as far as sex is concerned, I will not have sex until a man has committed to me. No, don’t scare her but let her take the lead. She will let you know by her actions as to how far you can take it. Best of luck!

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by badman7980

badman7980 — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

if ur lucky u get a kiss on the first date if not it shud b the 2nd.And on the 3 date if all goes well the 4th u will get lucky.

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by <'~Inspired~'/>

<'~Inspired~'/> — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

In my opinion…

I’m not going to kiss a guy until there is a strong possibility that I could marry him. And there will be no sex until we’re married.

That is what I believe is right.

However, everyone is different, so I’d say date for about a month before you give away your precious kisses.

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by Goat Brain

Goat Brain — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

She will give you hints through body language as to when she is ready.

Comment on On what date should things start to happen? by Bribri W

Bribri W — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:17:34 +0000

On each date tell her how beatiful she is and how amazing she is. And how lucky you are to have a girl like her in your life. probably towards the 3rd date go to like a movie and make a move like put your arm around her and kiss her. after a month if your still together you can probably bring up the idea of sex. But if she wants it sooner than go for it! and if she doesnt want it after a month. then let her decide. the worst thing is, is to have a guy force you into things.