To make a long story short, if being with the love of your life would mean others would get hurt, is it still worth pursuing? Or it’s better to live without the person you love and not be as happy so you don’t hurt others feelings?
How to breakup with a obsessed girlfriend?
October 21, 2010 By 14 Comments
Ok so im 15 and i have been dating my gf for 4 months now and shes 14.
I don’t really have feelings for her anymore and feel i have been dating her out of guilt.
I already broke up with her once and she wouldn’t let me go and i went back out with her out of guilt.
I feel i have lost feelings for her and I am unhappy in the relationship.
Any advice?
How do I get over a breakup without flocking to my friends?
October 1, 2010 By 2 Comments
I am in the process of breaking up with my boyfriend and I am wondering if there is a way I can get over him without going to my friends in pity? I love my friends and all but they don’t do anything but talk about men and how they are playing men and hanging out with them will just make my feelings worse.
What should I do and how do I do it? Thanks for your help!
How long to wait before I start dating again?
August 16, 2010 By 11 Comments
OK me and my gf of 2.5 yrs and fiance of 1 just broke up yesterday.
I’m finding that I have mixed emotions on when I want to start pursuing other women.
On the one hand there are a few girls that I am very interested in and could see having a relationship with, on the other this was a really tough break-up and I don’t want to put an innocent bystander’s feelings in jeopardy because I started dating too early.
Should love be work? What is love like after the initial excitement wears off?
July 13, 2010 By 11 Comments
I feel like my idea of love is too much of a fantasy, I feel like it should be easy and that I should always feel madly in love with my significant other. Then when that initial infatuation fades, I begin to doubt my feelings… does this mean that I never actually loved the person? Should love and commitment be difficult and require a lot of effort (especially long distance)? What is love like after the initial excitement is gone in long term relationships or marriages?
