Can love become so painful to make yourself not wanting to live?

If it does, then why do we call it love at all? Love is supposed to be sweet, soothing, relaxing. Why does it drive someone so crazy to commit suicide? Is that true love or some hormonal/psychological issue?

LOVE?

People always say i remember my first love, looking back on your first love do you still believe it was actual love? How is it different from your true love? and how can you tell if your first love is your true love? it sounds stupid, but im confused… help?

relationship?

ok, here’s my situation. my girlfriend broke up with me about five months ago because she felt certain things were missing. no problems with drugs, abuse, anything like that. mostly just a lack of deep conversations, getting into a rut, and a lack of emotional support. anyways, over the last few months i’ve made a lot of changes for myself and she has started to see that these changes are real. however, we’re both graduating from college in may and she’s planning on going to graduate school which is almost 5 hours away from where we currently are. now if you were her, would you let something like distance get in the way of what could be your one true love? would you be willing to try a long distance relationship if the guy turned out to be everything that you wanted? ofcourse, I would move there in a heart beat to be with her, but other circumstances have come about which might prevent it from happening.